Sustainable Marriage

How emotionally connected are you to your husband or wife? To help answer this important question, I’m reposting a popular article from 2019, hoping it will be beneficial today for your marriage.  Sometimes timing is everything.  Enjoy. + + + + + + + I met my wife, Melissa, on a cycling trip on the… Continue reading Sustainable Marriage

Up the Down Escalator

A woman is, but a man must become.Masculinity is risky and elusive. It is achieved by a revolt from a woman, and it is confirmed only by other men." Camille Paglia, lesbian activist I'm noticing a growing trend of wives "throwing in the towel", leaving passive husbands. Initially, I was shocked by what I thought… Continue reading Up the Down Escalator

You Make Me Feel Like Dancing

My wife, Melissa, is a fabulous dancer.  In describing what I do on the dance floor, she probably wouldn't use that same adjective. But we have fun. I liken the emotional life of a married couple to a "dance" -- ideally with a husband leading his wife, moving in unison around the floor.  When it’s done… Continue reading You Make Me Feel Like Dancing

Sustainable Marriage

I met my wife, Melissa, on a cycling trip on the Oregon coast.  I obviously caught her by surprise on our group’s last night together at a Portland restaurant, when I asked for her number.  I used some line that made her smile.  Before the evening was out, she shared her info, and so we… Continue reading Sustainable Marriage